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Erik James Howatneck
October 11, 1986 ~ June 3, 2017 (age 30) 30 Years Old Light a Candle
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A candle was lit by Mom and Dad feel your presence every day. Love evermore.
on June 3, 2023 10:18 AM
A candle was lit by Mom and Dad hoping you and Roy are watching down on us. Love
on June 3, 2022 9:10 AM
A candle was lit by Mom and Dad - 4 years already, we love you dearly!
on June 3, 2021 9:42 PM
A candle was lit by Steph D-- happy you're in a better place with soul set
on February 3, 2021 4:51 PM
A candle was lit by Mom and Dad love you and are glad you are safe
on June 3, 2020 8:56 AM
A candle was lit by Love Mom and Dad - we miss you every day.
on June 3, 2019 9:17 AM
A candle was lit by Always in our thoughts, Love Mom and Dad
on June 3, 2018 6:53 PM
A candle was lit by Mom and Dad - Love Evermore
on July 22, 2017 3:24 PM
A candle was lit by Saw a beautiful moon tonight and thought of you. Aunt Leigh
on July 2, 2017 2:02 AM
A candle was lit by Aunt Leigh
on June 29, 2017 11:04 PM
Message from Aunt Leigh, Uncle Chris and Sarah
June 20, 2017 12:17 PM
It has taken me a bit to even think of posting to this page. I wanted the right words to express my love for Erik and my love for Jami, Shelly, Lee and Jamie Dawn. It finally hit me that there are no words to describe what all is in my heart. Erik is loved deeply and strongly. I am keeping that in the present tense as he is loved and that will never go away.
My first memories of Erik are from my Thanksgiving trip home from Purdue in 1986. There he was, my 6 week old, first nephew - I was officially an aunt. He was the most beautiful baby I had ever seen. From the time I first held him, he had my heart and that has lasted ever since.
I remember him at about 2 or 3 taking Grams' hand and walking her down the hallway to look out the window at 'the Moon'. Just the way he said it and pointed at it captured his love for the moon and the stars and all that they lit up below. It also showed who he would become as he continued to grow, one who wanted everyone to experience the beauty around them and to be reminded of it by taking a moment to 'see it' and 'feel it'.
I hate that I lived so far away after college and did not see him as often as I wanted to - but even with the distance and the time between visits we always picked up where we left off and started every encounter with a huge hug and an 'I love you!' You could feel his heart when he gave a hug. They were never artificial or forced - they were real and meaningful.
During his time in Colorado we were blessed to have Erik stay with us for some time while he recovered from surgery. I loved having that time with him. When Chris and Sarah were not around, he allowed himself to be vulnerable and I would hold and hug him just like when he was a baby. I wanted to protect him from everything and relieve his pain but all I could do was offer love and prayers. He taught me so much during that time as well. He is truly one of the most intelligent and spiritual persons I have ever known.
It was a blessing that Sarah was able to spend so much time with her cousin. Erik never looked at her as his 'baby' cousin. He spoke to her with respect and love. And I can not describe how much he made her laugh. She learned a lot from Erik and I know she will keep those teachings with her. She is taking his loss very hard and I reassure her that Erik is at peace and will never leave her side. He is with her always.
These are the same words I try to say to myself but I struggle to not feel empty at times or selfish because I want him back on this earth. He is in heaven, without pain, without boundaries of space or time. He is with family, the most important thing to him. I like to picture him 'jamming' with the artists that he loved and those who have gone before. With Aunt Lori dancing by his side while the rest of the family smile, laugh and experience that passion and God-given talent. ( I think Jimi and Jerry are with him, too!)
My heart is still broken but it will mend with Eriks' help. I know he is with me and continues to 'hug' and reassure me that he is happy and at peace.
I love you, Erik! I think of you all of the time but especially when I see or experience something beautiful. In Colorado that happens every day!
My love, hugs and prayers go out to Jami and Shelly & Lee and Jamie Dawn. They are all blessed to have Erik so close to them. They are one of the closest families I have ever met. I know that if Erik, Lee and Jamie Dawn were not siblings they would still find each other somewhere at some time and become lifelong friends. Not only do they love each other, they like each other. What more can you ask of your children?
Erik may have only been on this earth for 30 years but he received and gave more love than most people do after 80 or 90 years.
Erik, I love you, I will miss you, you are always in my heart and I will feel you with me every day. Be at peace, shining star!
My first memories of Erik are from my Thanksgiving trip home from Purdue in 1986. There he was, my 6 week old, first nephew - I was officially an aunt. He was the most beautiful baby I had ever seen. From the time I first held him, he had my heart and that has lasted ever since.
I remember him at about 2 or 3 taking Grams' hand and walking her down the hallway to look out the window at 'the Moon'. Just the way he said it and pointed at it captured his love for the moon and the stars and all that they lit up below. It also showed who he would become as he continued to grow, one who wanted everyone to experience the beauty around them and to be reminded of it by taking a moment to 'see it' and 'feel it'.
I hate that I lived so far away after college and did not see him as often as I wanted to - but even with the distance and the time between visits we always picked up where we left off and started every encounter with a huge hug and an 'I love you!' You could feel his heart when he gave a hug. They were never artificial or forced - they were real and meaningful.
During his time in Colorado we were blessed to have Erik stay with us for some time while he recovered from surgery. I loved having that time with him. When Chris and Sarah were not around, he allowed himself to be vulnerable and I would hold and hug him just like when he was a baby. I wanted to protect him from everything and relieve his pain but all I could do was offer love and prayers. He taught me so much during that time as well. He is truly one of the most intelligent and spiritual persons I have ever known.
It was a blessing that Sarah was able to spend so much time with her cousin. Erik never looked at her as his 'baby' cousin. He spoke to her with respect and love. And I can not describe how much he made her laugh. She learned a lot from Erik and I know she will keep those teachings with her. She is taking his loss very hard and I reassure her that Erik is at peace and will never leave her side. He is with her always.
These are the same words I try to say to myself but I struggle to not feel empty at times or selfish because I want him back on this earth. He is in heaven, without pain, without boundaries of space or time. He is with family, the most important thing to him. I like to picture him 'jamming' with the artists that he loved and those who have gone before. With Aunt Lori dancing by his side while the rest of the family smile, laugh and experience that passion and God-given talent. ( I think Jimi and Jerry are with him, too!)
My heart is still broken but it will mend with Eriks' help. I know he is with me and continues to 'hug' and reassure me that he is happy and at peace.
I love you, Erik! I think of you all of the time but especially when I see or experience something beautiful. In Colorado that happens every day!
My love, hugs and prayers go out to Jami and Shelly & Lee and Jamie Dawn. They are all blessed to have Erik so close to them. They are one of the closest families I have ever met. I know that if Erik, Lee and Jamie Dawn were not siblings they would still find each other somewhere at some time and become lifelong friends. Not only do they love each other, they like each other. What more can you ask of your children?
Erik may have only been on this earth for 30 years but he received and gave more love than most people do after 80 or 90 years.
Erik, I love you, I will miss you, you are always in my heart and I will feel you with me every day. Be at peace, shining star!
A candle was lit by Sue Kuster
on June 14, 2017 8:08 PM
Message from Caroline Collins
June 14, 2017 4:07 PM
Erik was always a positive and happy presence. I met him in college and we remained friends after, going to shows and festivals together. I learned how to enjoy life more from our friendship. My heart and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Message from Tony Units
June 13, 2017 9:56 AM
I feel blessed to have known Erik; and to know his family.
A candle was lit by Tony Units
on June 13, 2017 9:50 AM
Message from Brother Lee Howatneck
June 13, 2017 9:41 AM
Rest In Peace Erik Howatneck, my best friend and brother. Over the years, We have shared so many beautiful memories and experiences. He was the person I always looked up to most. Erik taught me countless life lessons. He showed me the path of happiness and warned me about the path of pain. He always had my back and would invite me to all the fun parties. We spent so much time together talking about all the possibilities of what is "out there" and why we are here, we traveled all over the country to see our favorite bands, we would play music and go golfing. We worked multiple jobs together and took snowboard trips together. I am truly thankful and blessed to have spent so much time with such an amazing person. I am sorry erik had to go thru so much pain and health issues over the past ten years, and i am glad he is now free of any pain and suffering. I wish we could have shared more time together during this phase of life, but I know all of his friends and family will feel his spirit with us throughout the rest of our lives. And later down the road, we will meet again. I love erik so much and would like to wish everyone happiness and healthiness on behalf of him. Please everyone, Remember to make time for friends and family, because that's the most important thing in life. Remember to say I love you to the people you love. And remember to live each day as it would be one of your lasts.
A candle was lit by Brian Boettger
on June 11, 2017 6:59 PM
Message from Brian Boettger
June 11, 2017 6:58 PM
Erik was one of my best friends in this world. He was like a brother to me. He was one of the most positive, nicest, and happiest people I have ever known. I was heartbroken to hear of his passing. Since then I have been just reflecting on all the great memories, amazing experiences, in depth conversations, the laughs and overall good times we shared together, they are too numerous to count. With Erik every day was an opportunity for a new adventure or experience, and you knew when he was around fun was going to be had by everyone. He was one of the most intelligent people I have ever been lucky enough to call my friend. I learned so many amazing things from him, and he has made me a better man. The thing that I will always remember Erik for is his overall passion for living life to the fullest every single day. He had a profound effect on my life in trying to look for the good in every aspect of life, and to cherish & enjoy every moment I have. I plan to try and honor his memory everyday by trying to spread positivity, laughs, and overall good vibes to the people I come in contact with. Just as Erik would have done. I truly am going to miss him every single day of my life. He may be gone from this world but not gone from our hearts. Erik’s spirit and memory will always live on with all his friends and those who were lucky enough to know him. When we look up at the stars just take comfort in knowing Erik will be looking down on all of us smiling. Love you, Easy E and I’ll miss you forever Bro until we meet again, Rest In Peace…And to Mr & Mrs Howatneck, Lee and, Jaime I am so sorry for your loss. Please stay strong in these tough times. My heart goes out to all of you and I will keep you in my thoughts and Prayers.
A candle was lit by The Segiel Family
on June 11, 2017 5:50 PM
A candle was lit by Pauline Howatineck
on June 11, 2017 12:45 PM
A candle was lit by Aunt Therese
on June 11, 2017 12:29 PM
A candle was lit by Jarrod Marcus Lovelace
on June 11, 2017 10:51 AM
Message from Ryan Hentschel
June 10, 2017 3:54 PM
Words cannot begin to describe how heartbroken I am, the world lost a great person in Erik. I became friends with his brother, Lee, at first which led me to a friendship with Erik. Erik and Lee were brothers you could look up to as for their brotherhood was solid. Erik was a great person whom always had a gift for whatever he did or even tried. He definitely played a role in my childhood as a mentor in ways. He was also just a nice person in general whether he was jamming out, crab apple wars or playing hacky sack, Erik was always a good time. My heart goes out to Erik whom will never be forgotten and my heart also goes out to his beloved family. Erik, may you rest in peace.
A candle was lit by Casey Decareau
on June 9, 2017 8:00 PM
A candle was lit by Fred & Mary Ann Howatineck
on June 9, 2017 6:12 PM
A candle was lit by Kimberly Howatineck Mohr
on June 9, 2017 5:28 PM
Message from Angela and John Malecki
June 9, 2017 8:25 AM
Words are never adequate in moments like these. We will say though, that our hearts go out to you, and we will always remember the joyous memories that we are privileged to have in knowing your Erik. May Gods peace be with you. Erik was a wonderful man. He always had a beautiful smile. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Message from John and Terri (Buckley) Engle
June 9, 2017 7:50 AM
To Erik's entire family.
We are sending love, prayers and healing light to you during this time of transition. Words cannot express the sadness of losing a loved one. Blessings...
We are sending love, prayers and healing light to you during this time of transition. Words cannot express the sadness of losing a loved one. Blessings...
Message from Joe Cameron
June 9, 2017 7:03 AM
I was so shocked to hear of Erik's passing, and I'm still trying to wrap my head around it. Erik was such a good friend and he always had a positive outlook on life. He loved living it to the fullest. I have many memories with Erik - from working together, going out on the town, just kicking it hanging with friends. He will always be remembered in a positive light, as that's all he projected during his life - positivity. Love you, Erik. To his family - I wish you all strength during this tough time. We all lost a good one.
Message from Michele and David Joyce
June 9, 2017 6:55 AM
Jami, Shelley, Lee, and Jamie,
We are so sad to hear of the passing of Erik. We loved him and enjoyed spending time with him. I think back to trip we had in Maine a few years ago and how much Erik loved being on the water and hanging out with his extended family. He enjoyed that hammock and I can see him lying there with the sun beating down on him by the water and playing his guitar. He was very chill and in a peaceful place there and that is how I will always remember him. He was truly a special person we were lucky to have him part of our family. Love you all and hope we see you out West soon. My email is Michele.baxter.joyce@gmail.com and David's davidjoyce0704@gmail.com. We are thinking of all of you sending our love during this difficult time.
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We are so sad to hear of the passing of Erik. We loved him and enjoyed spending time with him. I think back to trip we had in Maine a few years ago and how much Erik loved being on the water and hanging out with his extended family. He enjoyed that hammock and I can see him lying there with the sun beating down on him by the water and playing his guitar. He was very chill and in a peaceful place there and that is how I will always remember him. He was truly a special person we were lucky to have him part of our family. Love you all and hope we see you out West soon. My email is Michele.baxter.joyce@gmail.com and David's davidjoyce0704@gmail.com. We are thinking of all of you sending our love during this difficult time.
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A candle was lit by Joe Cameron
on June 9, 2017 6:51 AM
Message from Vicki Hasnauer
June 8, 2017 9:20 PM
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Message from Chad Norris
June 8, 2017 7:40 PM
I am so saddened to hear about Eriks passing. He was such a nice guy and so caring towards others. He was a huge part of my childhood and I will truely miss him. He will forever be in all our memories.
Message from Cindy Novak
June 8, 2017 7:16 PM
Lisa,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your nephew, Erik, gone too soon for sure! Blessings on all of you & be assured of my prayers for you as well.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your nephew, Erik, gone too soon for sure! Blessings on all of you & be assured of my prayers for you as well.
Message from Atlanta
June 8, 2017 5:59 PM
I've been having such a hard time figuring out what to say. I've been flooded with so many memories of Erik the last several days, but one thing stands out. I can't remember him ever being in a bad mood. Not even once. He had such a great love for life. This hit me hard and I can't begin to believe what you're going through. Erik was a great friend and an amazing person. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jason and Kirsten Saxton
Jason and Kirsten Saxton
Message from Ed and Annette Carfang
June 8, 2017 5:51 PM
We have fond memories of Erik when he was in Myrtle Beach with family and his bartending days at Pasquilinos... we missed him them and we wish peace and eternal blessings to him and your family
Message from Murrysville
June 8, 2017 5:28 PM
Stan and Terrence and I were so saddened to hear of Eric's passing. T always thought of ERIC as a great friend. And we all enjoyed having him on our baseball team. He was a hard player and just such a nice respectful kid. You are all in our prayers.
The PODKUL's
The PODKUL's
A candle was lit by Mom and Dad
on June 8, 2017 1:43 PM
Message from Diane Boettger
June 7, 2017 3:19 PM
We were shocked and saddened to learn of Erik's passing. He was a sharp young man and will always have a special place in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers goes out to your family in your time of sorrow. Diane and John Boettger
A candle was lit by Duggan's Mission Chapel
on June 6, 2017 7:50 PM
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